Monday, 18 January 2016

LIVE LIFE BEFORE YOU LEAVE LIFE..

A woman sat down next to a man on a bench near a playground at West Coast park
one fine Sunday Morning.

"That's my son over there" she said, pointing to a little boy in a red T-shirt
who was gliding down the slide.

"He's a fine looking boy," the man said. "That's my son on the swing in the blue
T-shirt."

Then, looking at his watch, he called to his son.

"What do you say we go, Jack?"

Jack pleaded, "Just five more minutes, Dad. Please? Just five more minutes."
The man nodded and Jack continued to swing to his heart's content.

Minutes passed and the father stood and called again to his son. "Time to go now?"

Again Jack pleaded, "Five more minutes, Dad. Just five more minutes."
The man smiled and said, "O.K."

"My! You certainly are a patient father," the woman responded.

The man smiled and then said, "My older son John was killed by a drunk driver
last year, while he was riding his bike near here. I never spent much time with
John and now I'd give anything for just five more minutes with him. I've vowed
not to make the same mistake with Jack. He thinks he has five more minutes to
swing. The truth is, I get Five more minutes to watch him play."

Life is not a race.
Life is all about making Priorities.
What are your priorities?

Give someone you love, FIVE more minutes of your time, no matter how busy you
are and you will have no regret forever.
Once you have lost it, it shall be lost FOREVER....

Life can only be understood backwards; But it must be Lived forwards.

LIVE LIFE BEFORE YOU LEAVE LIFE...

Friday, 8 January 2016

Writers story of being positive..

Convert your negative thoughts to positive thoughts.
A writer picked up a pen and wrote:
Last year, i had a surgery and my gall bladder was removed. I was stucked to the bed for a long time.
The same year i reached the age of 60 and had to give up my favourite publishing job, where i had spent 30 years of my life.
The same year i experienced the sorrow of the death of my father.
In the same year my son.failed in the medical.exam, because he met with a car accident and had to stay in the cast for several days. The distruction of car was another loss.
At the end he wrote : alas! It was such a bad year!!
When the writer's wife entered the room, found her husband looking sad and lost in.his thoughts.
From.behind she read what was written on the paper. She left the room silently and came back with another paper and placed it on the side of her husband's  writing.
When the writer saw this paper he found his name on the paper along with following lines.
Last year i finally got rid of my gall bladder due to which i had spents years in pain....
I turned 60 with sound health and got retired from my job. Now i can utilize my time to write something better with focus and peace....
The same year my father at the afe of 95 without depending on any one or without any critical condition met his creator.....
The same year, god blessed my son with a new life. My car was destroyed but son stayed alive without getting any disability....
At the end she wrote:  This year was an emmence blessing of god and it passed so well!!!!!.
Such encouraging  and beautiful.interpretation of the happenings in his life that year made the writer happy and amazed.
It is not happiness that makes us grateful but gratefulness that makes us happy.....

Tuesday, 5 January 2016

Story shared by Mr. Akash Gautam on Whatsapp

You'll love this story. I just soooo louuuuved it :)

"Once upon a time in a faraway land, there lived a Chinese wise man and his disciple. One day in their travels, they saw a hut in the distance. As they approached they realized that it was occupied in spite of its extremely poor appearance.

In that desolate place where there were no crops and no trees,
a man lived with his wife, three young children and a thin, tired cow. Since they were hungry and thirsty, the wise man and his disciple stopped for a few hours and were well received.

At one point, the wise man asked:
“This is a very poor place, far away from anything. How do you survive?”

“You see that cow? That’s what keeps us going,” said the head of the family. “She gives us milk, some of it we drink and some were make into cheese. When there is extra, we go into the city and exchange the milk and cheese for other types of food. That’s how we survive.”

The wise man thanked them for their hospitality and left. When he reached the first bend in the road, he said to his disciple:

“Go back, get the cow, take her to the cliff in front of us, and push her off.”
The disciple could not believe what he was hearing.
“I cannot do that, master! How can you be so ungrateful? The cow is all they have. If I throw it on the cliff, they’ll have no way to survive. Without the cow, they’ll all die!”
The wise man, an elderly Chinese man, took a deep breath and repeated the order: “Go ahead. Push the cow off the cliff.”

Though outraged at what he was being asked to do, the student was resigned to obey his master.

He returned to the hut and quietly led the animal to the edge of the cliff and pushed. The cow fell down the cliff and died.

As the years passed by, remorse for what he had done never left the disciple. One spring day, the guilt became too much to bear and he left the wise man and returned to that little shack. He wanted to find out what had happened to that family, to help them out, apologize, or somehow make amends.

Upon rounding a turn in the road, he could not believe what his eyes were showing him. In place of the poor shack there was a beautiful house with trees all
around, a swimming pool, several cars in the garage, a satellite dish, and on and on.

Three good-looking teenagers and their parents were celebrating their first million dollars.

The heart of the disciple froze. What could have happened to the family? Without a doubt, they must have been starving to death and forced to sell their land and leave. At that moment, the student thought they must all be begging on the street corners of some city. He approached the house and asked a man that was passing by about the whereabouts of the family that had lived
there several years before.

“You’re looking at it,” said the man, pointing to the people gathered around the barbecue.
Unable to believe what he was hearing, the disciple walked through the gate and took a few steps closer to the pool where he recognized the man from several
years before, only now he was strong and confident, the woman was happy, and the children were now nice-looking teenagers.

He was dumbfounded, and went over to the man and asked:
“What happened? I was here with my teacher a few years ago and this was a miserable place.
There was nothing. What did you do to improve your lives in such a short time?”

The man looked at the disciple, and replied with a smile:
“We had a cow that kept us alive. She was all we had. But one day she fell down the cliff and died. To survive, we had to start doing other things, develop skills we didn’t even know we had.

And so, because we were forced to come up with new ways of doing things, we are now much better off than before.”

Moral of the story: Sometimes our dependency on something small and limited is the biggest obstacle to our growth. Perhaps the best thing that could happen to you is to push your “cow” down the cliff. Once you free yourself of the thought “it’s little but it’s certain,”  — then your life will really change.

Is there a cow ( a person , idea, mental block or mind set ) in your life that is keeping you miserable?

Throw it off the cliff!

Rise & Shine ! - Mr. Akash Gautam

Monday, 4 January 2016

CHINESE ADVICE TO 50-YEARS & 50 PLUS YEARS OLDER


Because none of us have many years to live, and we can't take along anything when we go, so we don't have to be too thrifty. 

Spend the money that should be spent, enjoy what should be enjoyed, donate what you are able to donate, but don't leave all to your children or grandchildren, for you don't want them to become parasites who are waiting for the day you will die!!
 
DON'T WORRY about what will happen after we are gone, because when we return to dust, we will feel nothing about praises or criticisms. The time to enjoy the worldly life and your hard earned wealth will be over!
 
DON'T WORRY too much about your children, for children will have their own destiny and should find their own way. Don't be your children's slave. Care for them, love them, give them gifts but also enjoy your money while you can. Life should have more to it than working from the cradle to the grave!!
 
DON'T EXPECT too much from your children. Caring children, though caring, would be too busy with their jobs and commitments to render much help.
 
Uncaring children may fight over your assets even when you are still alive, and wish for your early demise so they can inherit your properties and wealth.
 
Your children take for granted that they are rightful heirs to your wealth; but that you have no claims to their money.

50-year olds, don't trade in - your health for wealth, by working yourself to an early grave anymore. Because your money may not be able to buy your health.
 
When to stop making money, and how much is enough  ?               
(A HUNDRED thousand, One million, ten million,One billion )? 
Out  of thousand hectares of good farm land, you can consume only three quarts (of rice) daily; out of a thousand mansions, you only need eight square meters of  space to rest at night.

So, as long as you have enough food and enough money to spend, that is good enough. You should live happily.

Every family has its own problems.

Just DO NOT COMPARE  with others for fame and social status and see whose children are doing better etc., but challenge others for happiness, health, enjoyment, quality of  life and longevity. 


DON'T WORRY about things that you can't change because it doesn't help and it may spoil your health.
 
You have to create your own well-being and find your own place of happiness.
As long  as you are in good mood and good health, think about happy things, do happy things daily and have fun in doing, then you will pass your time happily every day.
 
One day passes WITHOUT happiness, you will lose one day.
One day passes WITH happiness and then you gain one day.
     
In good spirit, sickness will cure;
In a happy spirit, sickness will cure faster;
in high and happy spirits, sickness will never come.

With good mood, suitable amount of exercise, always in the sun, variety of foods, reasonable amount of vitamin and mineral intake, hopefully you will live another 20 or 30 years of  healthy life of pleasure.

-   ABOVE ALL -  Learn to cherish the goodness around.
.. and FRIENDS........... They all make you feel young and "wanted"... without them you are surely to feel lost !! 

Wishing you all the best for the years to come.
 
Please share this with all your friends who are 50 plus and those who will be 50 plus  after some time and also with your children.