Monday, 31 July 2023

Ensuring Social Orders

Narada had the power to travel through space and time. One day, he decided to pay a visit to Ayodhya , the city of the rule-following Ram and to Vrindavan, the village of the rule-breaking Krishna. At Ayodhya, he told the story of Krishna; the residents did not appreciate the rakish, mischievous cowherd at all. 

He is not serious at all, they said. At Vrindavan, he told the story of Ram; the residents did not appreciate the upright and rather serious king at all. He is no fun, they said. Narada then went to Hanuman, the mighty monkey, and asked him who he preferred : Ram or Krishna? And Hanuman said, "What is the difference? Both are Vishnu to me; Lakshmi follows him, whether he is Ram or Krishna." 

So what is the difference between Ram and Krishna? Both belong to two different contexts: Ram lives in Treta yuga and Krishna in Dvapara yuga. One context demands Vishnu to be the upright rule-following Ram and the other context demands Vishnu to be the lovable rule-breaking Krishna. Both are same, but different. Both are upholding social order, dharma; one by keeping the rules and the other by breaking them! 

 

In corporations, we seek people who comply and frown upon people who do not. But people love breaking rules. Often being in a senior position is an excuse to break rules. Being in the creative profession is seen as a chance to be undisciplined. But being Ram or Krishna is not about whether rules are upheld or broken; it is about the reason why rules are upheld or broken. Few pay attention to that. 

Ankita is the chief operating officer of a large design studio. She has a staff of designers , colourists, architects and painters. It annoys her a great deal that they never come to office on time, never keep deadlines , never stick to timelines, and plan things only when compelled to. How can she run the company like this? The staff argued , they are all creative artists who cannot function with rigid rules. It hampers their innovative spirit. 

One day, the following month, salaries did not reach people on time. Ankita took a vacation that day and was not reachable on phone. When she returned to office on the following Monday, after a long weekend, she saw an angry mob of employees demanding an explanation . 

"Surely , I have the right to be creative too and not keep deadlines and commitments," she said. 

The staff was not amused, but the message was passed loud and clear. 

It was a risk Ankita took and it paid off. 

We all want to be Krishnas and want others to be like Ram, without really understanding what it means to be either. To be Ram or Krishna, we have to be Vishnu and to be Vishnu, we have to ensure there is social order that brings Lakshmi our way. 


(Source of the story: http://economictimes.indiatimes.com/magazines/corporate-dossier/management-mythos-what-krishna-tells-us-about-not-being-wrong-in-breaking-rules-if-dharma-is-upheld/articleshow/12378073.cms)

Wednesday, 3 May 2023

Real Heroes are missing today - APJ and Sam

When Dr. Abdul Kalam Ji was The President, he visited Coonoor. 

On Reaching, he came to know that Field Marshall Sir Sam Manekshaw Ji 🙏🙏was in the Military Hospital there. 

Dr. Kalam Wanted to visit Sam, which was unscheduled. 

Arrangements were made. 

At the bedside, Dr. APJ Kalam Ji🙏🙏 spent about 15 minutes talking to Sam and enquiring about his health.

 Just before leaving Kalam asked Sam, "Are you comfortable? Is there anything I could do? Do you have any grievance or any requirement that would make you more comfortable?"

Sam said, "Yes Your Excellency. I have one grievance."
Shocked with concern and anguish Kalam asked him what It was. 
Sam replied, "Sir my grievance is that I am not able to get up and Salute my most respected President of my beloved country."
Kalam held Sam's hand as both were in tears. But
the remaining part of the tale regarding this meeting is that Sam did tell APJ that he was not paid the pension of the Field Marshall’s rank till then, for nearly twenty years. 
An aghast President went to Delhi and passed the pension with arrears within a week and sent the cheque of nearly Rs.1.25 Crores through The Defence Secretary by a special plane to Wellington, Ooty where Sam was ailing. 

That is the greatness of APJ.
But then, Sam received the cheque and promptly
donated It to The Army Relief Fund.

Salutes to both the Distinguished Patriotic Indian 🇮🇳Gentlemen of #BhavyaBharath

These are the #realheroes the youth should have as role models and not cine actors.

Indeed those real Heroes are missing today.

Thursday, 9 March 2023

At least Share a Smile!

 LIGHTEN UP…… 

IT AIN'T ALL THAT BAD❗

1.  I used to be able to do cartwheels. Now I tip over putting on my underwear.

2.   Hate it when I see an old person and then realize we went to high school together.

3.  I told my wife she should embrace her mistakes... so she hugged me.

4.  My wife says I have only two faults: I don't listen and ... something else.

5.  At my funeral, take the bouquet off my coffin and throw it into the crowd to see who is next.

6.  I thought growing old would take longer.

7.  I came, I saw, I forgot what I was doing. Retraced my steps, got lost on the way back, now I have no idea what's going on.

8.  The officer said, "You drinking?" 

I said, "You buying?" 

We just laughed and laughed. 

I need bail money.

9.  Life is too short to waste time matching socks.

10.  Wi-fi went down for five minutes, so I had to talk to my family. They seem like nice people.

11.  If you see me talking to myself, just move along. I'm self-employed; we're having a staff meeting.

12.  I won't be impressed with technology until I can download food.

13.  Some people call me crazy. I prefer ‘happy with a twist’.

14.  My doctor asked if anyone in my family suffers with mental illness. 

I said, "No, we all seem to enjoy it."

15.  Camping: where you spend a small fortune to live like a homeless person.

16.  "Project Manager" - because Miracle Worker isn't an official job title.

17.  I've reached the age where my train of thought often leaves the station without me.

18.  If you're happy and you still know it, it's your meds.


Laughter is still the best Medicine! 


At least Share a Smile!

Thursday, 23 February 2023

What you behave is what you feel Other is doing

 

A boy and a girl played together. 

The boy had a collection of beautiful marbles. 

The girl had some candy with her. 

The boy offered to give the girl all her marbles in exchange for all her sweets. 

The girl agreed. 

The boy gave all the marble to the girl, but secretly he kept the largest and most beautiful marble for himself. 

The girl gave her all her sweets as she had promised. 

That night, the girl slept peacefully. 

But the boy couldn’t sleep as he wondered if the girl had hidden some tastier sweets from him in the same way that he had hidden his best marble.

Moral

If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship, you will always doubt if the other person has given their hundred percent.